Everything is all about God's perfect timing. If it's for me, then there won't be any conflicts, drama and the like. But since it's not, then I guess, I just have to wait for more days. Everyday is another hope, I always never lose one. :') I am happy for what and who I have, they always kept me level-headed and think things first before losing myself unto feelings and self-pity.
I used to say that we should learn to open our eyes, but then sometimes I forget that I, myself, should do the same. Everything around us is beauty.. A gift from above. But, it does not mean that every thing that is not beautiful to our senses is not a blessing, it is that moment then that we should learn to appreciate, to understand and to accept.
I know in myself that I am not perfect, but I have seen myself stand up after every downfall I had in life. Sometimes, I laugh at myself on how stupid I maybe of cursing that "I wanna die!" then still continue doing things to live, adjusting to life's changes and the like. That is what I call "resiliency" and I think everyone of us should learn to understand that life is a game in which all of us should learn how to play.
Expectations hurt but learning to accept what our lives may bring is much better. As what Bob Marley said, learn to "live the life you love, love the life you live".
I'd be glad to hear your stories of disappointments and how you had cope up with it